Companionship Contemplation
I go over over again in my head, do I even want a man, do I even want a partner? My brain has been cataloging ex boyfriends in my dreams.…
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May 20, 2025
Gold Diggin’ Girls Drivin’ Me Crazy
Men really like to complain that they lose their ass when they get divorced. The ex dude in my life was no exception. He was finding all sorts of way…
May 19, 2025
Rules are for Thee, Not for Me
One huge thing I'm realizing about my Mom and my ex, they both thought they were the king of the castle, the head honcho, God. So, normal rules didn't apply…
May 17, 2025
Cassandra
For over 10 years, I tried to figure out how to make my marriage more bearable. My husband was a know it all, he wouldn't bathe and he was combative…
May 14, 2025
The Garden vs. The Drainage Ditch
Relationships take care and effort. They are like a garden. Many different kinds of plants, all needing different watering schedules, feeding schedules, pruning schedules, amounts of sunlight etc etc. Ongoing…
May 12, 2025
Happy Mother’s Day to ME
I basically raised myself. And I raised my mother, too. Growing up, I had to make myself small, quiet. She didn't want to be bothered by me unless we were…
May 11, 2025
The Miscarriage
This story is so absurd, I have to share it. I feel compelled to share it. So, my husband and I almost broke up one other time, in 2011. He…
April 27, 2025
The MF Giving Tree
The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein is supposed to be a beautiful story about unconditional love and generosity. I'm sure that's how he intended it. or maybe it was a…
April 27, 2025
OTSD or Birthing Myself
I'm trying desperately to figure out why I feel so depressed. I'm safe, I have everything I need, the divorce is weeks away from being over. Why do I feel…
April 27, 2025
Lexapro Has Left the Building
Want to know how sensitive I am?? I'm down to 2.5mg of Lexapro, stepping down from 10mg in a month. And in the last two days, peanut butter and jelly…
April 26, 2025